The Purposeless Wife Blog

A Safe Space for Healing Through Transparency

“Loving Jesus doesn’t always cure suicidal thoughts.  Loving Jesus doesn’t always cure depression. Loving Jesus doesn’t always cure PTSD. Loving Jesus doesn’t always cure anxiety. But that doesn’t mean Jesus doesn’t offer us companionship and comfort. He ALWAYS does that.” – Jarrid Wilson September is Suicide Prevention month and we just so happen to have …

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“Top 15 Things Money Can’t BuyTime. Happiness. Inner Peace. Integrity. Love. Character. Manners. Health. Respect. Morals. Trust. Patience. Class. Common sense. Dignity.” -Roy T. Bennett …Or at least that’s what my husband thinks lol. The other day, while on a date night, my husband said to me, “When we STRUGGLE, WE struggle”. After multiple times …

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Marriage is such a beautiful and sacred union of two souls joined as one. The levels of intimacy are increased to maximum capacity and one of the most exciting/enjoyable ways to connect is sexually with your spouse. It was literally one of the things I was looking forward to most when I got married! One of the most frustrating parts of my mental illnesses is that my libido is now trash. Most days I have absolutely no interest in being intimate (period) and usually the times that I do are when I’m ovulating…

“Strength doesn’t come from what you can do. It comes from overcoming the things you once thought you couldn’t.” – Rikki Rogers Last year I stumbled upon a twitter thread of M. Molly Backes (@mollybackes) that gave me the words to something that had been plaguing me intensely & consistently for about 2 years. It …

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“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom” – Anais Nin As of today, I have somehow managed to stay married for 3 years. I tend to not want to think much about anniversaries/milestones because there has been an ominous …

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