The Purposeless Wife Blog

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“I give you this to take with you: Nothing remains as it was. If you know this, you can begin again, with pure joy in the uprooting.” – Judith Minty Today I turn 33 years old. April 29, 1986, ya girl entered the world and changed everyone’s life for the better (lol j/k j/k!). This …

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“Strength doesn’t come from what you can do. It comes from overcoming the things you once thought you couldn’t.” – Rikki Rogers Last year I stumbled upon a twitter thread of M. Molly Backes (@mollybackes) that gave me the words to something that had been plaguing me intensely & consistently for about 2 years. It …

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“To conquer frustration, one must remain intensely focused on the outcome, not the obstacles” – T.F. Hodge I want to give birth. I haven’t ALWAYS wanted to be a parent, but once I decided I did, it was all I ever, definitively, knew I wanted to do with my life. I got married in 2016 …

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“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom” – Anais Nin As of today, I have somehow managed to stay married for 3 years. I tend to not want to think much about anniversaries/milestones because there has been an ominous …

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